Develop a Thick Skin? Maybe? Maybe Not?

I’m sure you’ve heard the expression “thick skin,” especially if you’re a writer and listen to advice on dealing with critiques on your stories. Mentors tell you, “Have a thick skin,” or in other words, “Don’t let what they say wreck your spirit.” At least, I think that’s what they mean.

But should we simply tell ourselves to buck up? Keep a stiff upper lip? Can I think of more mantras? Shouldn’t we acknowledge our hurt and bloodstained pages while we fight through them and scribble the words itching to come out?

Author Lara Lee gives a hilarious look into the trials and tribulations of the author life and how to live through them. Maybe you can relate to some of this. I know I have.